Thursday, November 18, 2004

Orang gila yang tak faham bahasa!

I received few emails from a stranger. Few weeks ago, he/she left a comment on Writer's blog, accusing us to be weirdos. In one of his/her emails (using both pronouns because there's a possibility for the sender to be a woman), he/she mentioned that we drive men away from us. Dz - because she has high taste in everything, and me, because of my harsh language and taekwon-do which he/she claimed would threaten any men near me. I would normally ignore this kind of crap, but when it involves other people, that would definitely make me angry.

This person send another email last night, asking me why am I still single, takde boifren. Well, to tell you the truth, in this matter, I am a very practical person. Having relationship when you're still studying will only cause more problems.

1)You have to divide your time between your studies, activities with friends and pa'toh-ing with your boyfriend.
2) Most of the time, you have to lie to your parents to keep the relationship a secret. Takut kena pelankung ngan mak bapak dia plak kang.
3) The most important thing to avoid is DOSA!DOSA!DOSA!

So, it's easier to stay away from this kind of relationship until you are really ready for it. I'm a very kolot person. When you're ready to get married, to give your commitment to family life then only you're ready to have boyfriend or girlfriend. When you're married, your responsibility is not only to your spouse, but also to your future offspring. Of course lah, you don't want a penyangak to be your partner and father/mother to your children kan.

The conclusion is I am not yet ready for such relationship. That's all!

To THE Anonymous, you know neither of us - our personality, attitude etc. Your claims and accusations are baseless. So, you better move on, and find something else to do! In simpler words, GO TO H*LL! (now I feel there's a need to use harsh words :P )

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