Emotional rage (?)

I saw Hanif Basree's family picture in Utusan Malaysia and Malay Mail on Saturday. Ideal had once told me not to judge or accuse people until they're proven guilty. Yeah, I understood the advice and the news very well, Hanif was found NOT guilty for the murder case involving Norrita. No matter what you say, I think his wife is stupid and weak. Your husband confessed to the public that he had sexual relationship with the deceased, and you appeared on the media to claim that "my children need their father". I have few things lingering in my head. First, your husband had committed adultery, the whole Malaysia knew about it, and you seemed to be OK with it, you appeared at the court in support of your husband, what kind of woman are you? I totally disagree with her way of handling this, (yeah, I'm a penyibuk, so what?) aren't you ashamed of your husband? And appearing in the media was a suicidal move. Wherever you go, people would be whispering, "dia tuh la isteri Hanif dot dot dot tuh". Even if you've forgiven your husband, you need not to join in the bad "publicity". Secondly, you've dragged your children into this and claimed "my children need their father." Come on lah, there are so many single-parents out there surviving on their own and I knew quite a number of people who turned out OK although being raised by a single mother or father. Not only has Hanif tarnished his family's dignity, but the wife has willingly submitted to his dirty game of selfishness and ignorance. BUT, what made me even more furious was the media themselves, they portrayed the news of Hanif's release as if it was a good news. IT WAS NOT! Even though he's not the murderer, but he should be punished for his "sexual activities". And yeah, I'm in no position to judge him. Tapi, why do the media have to make it appear as if there's nothing wrong with committing adultery, Hanif admitted his doings OK! And because of this some people might think it's OK to commit zina; whereas all religions condem this practice, and as long as your "partner" is very much alive, it is OK to have illicit sex. In my opinion, once you've committed adultery, "you've committed incest, rape, and murder." Hanif had an affair with the deceased on mutual basis, not considered as raping. But he has raped his wife and children off their dignity, and he has stabbed their hearts and murdered their souls. Actually, my "rage" is against the media rather than Hanif, so please read this article again, in case you don't get it ^__^

p/s: if you think I'm a busybody, hahaha, you're busybody too, if not u won't be reading this to the end, and you won't follow the case heheheheehe. It's the nature of man, but over here, it is under control ^__^